Saturday, April 2, 2016

The Ride that Broke Records (and our Wills)



The Ride for Hope 8 Team with Jay Medina (third from right) of Bisikleta Republika. L-R: Team Principal Mon Santos, Nico Fernandez, Fred Labenia, Michael Casilum, and Team Captain C-j Indiongco. Photo property of the author

Author's note: It's been more than four months since Ride for Hope 8, and this post is just as delayed. The sheer challenge of completing RFH8 has been quite an experience for me, more than any other Ride we have done, that the trauma still haunts me from time to time. I apologize especially to the supporters and donors looking for a report of our fundraising activities, as I took my time to put into words our unique experience those two, eventful days last November. To the reader, I hope you finish this account, long-winded as it may seem, with a new perspective and appreciation for life.

The five of us were resting in a sari-sari store in Barangay Looc in Nasugbu town, Batangas, when we spied the two twinkling LED bike lights coming from up the road to our left. It had been more than 15 minutes since the first of our group had arrived at the store, and knowing that our team captain C-j and Nico—two of our stronger riders on the Team—were the ones inbound, all five of us knew the delay was quite unnatural.

C-j was not smiling as he pulled up at the store, with Nico right in front of him. I got up from my seat to welcome the newcomers, and in the quickly fading light, an exasperated C-j let loose in Filipino eight words I had been dreading since the ascent back in Tagaytay:

Hindi aakyat ng bundok ang bike na ito.”

The bike he was riding on was not going to make the climb up Mount Palay-palay.

***

Like most previous editions of Ride for Hope (RFH), the run-up to this eighth Ride was not an easy or a stress-free one. Up until two weeks before the November 18 event were we only able to confirm the composition of the 2015 Team. It was also exactly two days before the Ride when we were able to secure a bike for Nico, whose first-option bike was no longer available for him to use.

With less than a month to go, we were also able to finalize a plan to make limited edition shirts (a first for RFH) for riders and other interested supporters. Proceeds of the sales would go to Bahay Aruga, the free halfway home for pediatric cancer patients that had served as our preferred beneficiary for the year. It was a hectic time finding the right shirts and the right custom t-shirt maker, but one brave supplier managed to print the shirts and deliver them right before the eve of the Ride.

Nevertheless, it was encouraging to see the Team and a new crowd of supporters make time and give towards the cause. Friends, new faces, and unnamed people bought shirts, pledged financial support, or rode with the Team on race day. Whatever their reasons for joining the cause, whether personal or trivial, what mattered was that people were doing their part.

Leading the charge was our good friend and fellow cyclist Jay Medina, the man behind our official partner, Bisikleta Republika. Since RFH 3 back in 2013, he had wanted to be part of this event, and this year, he wasn’t going to be denied. “Mas maganda na yung may purpose ang pagbibisikleta natin, di yung puro papogi lang (I’d rather we ride for a good cause instead of spending everything upgrading a bike),” he declared passionately to the group of bikers who were joining RFH for the first time.
Riders gather at the starting point on the morning of November 18. Photo by and property of the author
He was also the reason for that crowd of bikers, both seasoned and newbie, gathered at the Bisikleta Republika shop in Sucat the day before Ride 8. Using a combination of charm, wit, and subtle force, he was able to persuade bikers from all walks of life to join in the biggest RFH event to date, with almost 20 riders on race day.

***

There would be five Official riders on this eighth edition’s Team, all wearing the Bisikleta Republika sponsor kit: C-j, team captain; Mikey, our engineer/mechanic; Team newcomers Nico and Fred; and this writer as the team Principal. We had settled on a sort of structure to facilitate decision-making processes in the face of the expected big group that would be joining us on Race Day. We also had two “guest” Riders: Bernie Caguioa of Doña Rosario, Sucat, and Agapito Puente Jr. of Las Piñas City.

For the route, we settled on conquering the Batangas-Cavite Loop, a challenging mix of climbs, descents, flats, and—we would discover later—sheer craziness. No one among the Team had attempted this challenge, although C-j had experience climbing Mount Palay-palay and Pico de Loro, the mountains that lay before the homestretch of our journey. I had earlier scouted the route from Tagaytay to Nasugbu, which promised up to 30 kilometers of pure downhill bliss. Beyond Nasugbu, though, no one had any idea how we were going to proceed.

***

The peloton of almost 20 Riders—Official as well as “Partner” Riders who have no obligation to finish the full Loop—pushed off from Bisikleta Republika in Sucat in the early hours of November 18. It was 4:38, eight minutes over our target roll-out, but there was not much concern at this point. The Team figured that at race pace, we would probably be at our first waypoint in Dasmariñas, Cavite in about an hour.
The peloton making its way along Daang Hari early in the morning. Photo by and property of the author
 As we made our way along Daang Hari, though, other Partner Riders started joining in from various locations. To have these Partner Riders catch up, we made several more stops along the way, each stop lasting around 10 to 15 minutes. It was when the sun started rising that I started to worry: It was already past 6:00am and we were still nowhere near Dasmariñas.

Turning into Molino-Paliparan Road, one of the Partner Riders suffered a flat. Again, the peloton stopped to wait. Jay started worrying as well; among the group, probably only he knew how grueling our previous Rides had been. “Gagabihin na naman tong mga ito,” he insisted, pointing out that Ride for Hope 5 had taken us 22 hours to finish the Laguna Loop.

After a few more minutes of waiting, the others reluctantly agreed to let us go.

We had gone no farther than five kilometers when the rain fell in sheets, soaking us to the skin in no time. We were forced to stop and shelter for a while.  There was no point slogging on, with visibility down to a few meters.

Thankfully, it took only about 15 minutes for the main storm front to pass. As soon as the rain let up a bit, we slipped on warmers and resumed our upward journey.

***

It was around 8:30am when we reached Dasmariñas, two hours behind schedule. Since we had created considerable distance from the others, we found out via phone that the rest of the peloton had turned back towards Sucat. At this point, Jay started to get discouraged but our two guest riders, Bernie and Agapito, pushed him to continue. “Andito ka na rin lang, ituloy mo na,” they said, and they were right: It would be a waste to turn back now.
Jay (right) takes a call and learns the rest of the peloton has turned back, as Agapito (left) surveys the scene as the Team stops in Dasmarinas. Photo by and property of the author
Our journey towards Tagaytay resumed, but less than half an hour later, a new problem arose. Nico’s replacement bike “Utoy” developed a problem with the rear wheel. A small collision with another Rider had pushed the wheel out of line, causing it to rub against the frame. C-j managed to fix the issue, but we had lost another 15 minutes or so, and Nico, who normally kept pace with the frontrunners, was noticeably lagging behind.

For the rest of the journey through Silang, Nico struggled to keep up with the rest of the group. We were both concerned he might overexert himself and burn up all his energy even before we reached Batangas. The bike was visibly slowing him down, with its uncooperative drive train and an unstable seat. At our last stopover before the final push towards the Tagaytay Rotunda, I was starting to consider the possibility of Nico being unable to finish the Ride.

“Nico, palit tayo ng bike,” C-j ordered, handing over his hybrid bike “Kalloy” to his younger counterpart. I knew then at that moment why I had chosen him to lead this Team.

***

We reached the end of the first stage of our journey, the Tagaytay Rotunda, at almost 11:00am, more than three hours behind schedule. It was a fulfilling moment for most of the group, some making the ascent to the City on the Ridge for the first time. For us in the Team, it marked the first hurdle overcome.
Lunch at Andok's Tagaytay. Photo property of the author
After a quick lunch and about half an hour’s worth of rest, we started plotting our next move. Jay would lead several other Partner Riders back home; this group included violin virtuoso and family friend Dick Saraza, who also happened to be a bike enthusiast. The rest would continue: five of us on the Team, plus Bernie, Agapito, and our churchmate kuya Manz.

As Jay and the others started their homeward trip, I took the customary victory lap—a tradition started since RFH 1, when it was still known as Padyak Pag-asa—around the Rotunda as the rest of the Team watched. I then signaled to the others to proceed, and our journey was back on. From this point onwards, we were finally on our own.

***
Taking the customary town arch picture, at the entrance to Batangas. Photo by and property of the author
A vehicular accident in Barangay Banilad in Nasugbu forced us to stop for a while. We had been descending from Tagaytay for about an hour, and our arms ached. It seemed that things were going smoothly up until now, until Bernie received a phone call from Agapito, who had fallen about half a kilometer or so behind. “Na-flat yung bike nya,” Bernie informed us. We decided to sit down at a shed beside the road and wait for Agapito while C-j and I discussed our plan for the climb up Mt. Palay-palay.

Taking a rest during an unscheduled stop in Barangay Banilad, Nasugbu. Photo by C-j Indiongco
We decided to take the route around Mt. Cayluya, turning right at F. Alix road in Nasugbu instead of proceeding northward along the highway. We figured it would be a more conducive route for us to take, instead of the zigzag along the coastline. With C-j riding “Utoy” and kuya Manz determined to finish the course despite having no prior climbing experience, we decided taking the easier road—which, despite being a “shortcut,” was actually longer by a kilometer or two—was the best course of action.

Some 40 minutes later, Agapito finally caught up with us, bringing us bananas, a welcome food to all cyclists. After about 10 minutes of rest, we proceeded towards Tuy, a little over 10 kilometers from barangay Banilad. At that point, kuya Manz decided he could not go on further. “Still have to go back to my son,” he said, almost regretfully. We spent about half an hour waiting for him to secure a bus ride that would take him back to Cavite, as he was not familiar with the place. 

When we were finally given leave, it was almost 5:00pm, and I suggested to the group that we find a jeepney at Nasugbu proper that we could rent to take us up Mt. Palay-palay since it was already quite late. The others felt, though, that they still had enough strength to go on, and that we could probably reach Kaybiang Tunnel in an hour. Little did we know the challenge that lay ahead.

***

At Nasugbu proper, we turned right onto F. Alix road, which served as a bypass route for vehicles coming from or headed to Ternate, Cavite. The road seemed relatively new, cutting through hectares of farmland and rice fields. As the sun set, its rays lit up the Batangas countryside, painting it in vivid colors and shades that could not be adequately described in print.
Who knew Batangas was this beautiful at sunset? Photo by and property of the author
“Ara would love this,” I said to Fred, and he nodded—no, he actually grinned. Ara and Fred had recently started working on their friendship even as she strove to finish her degree in medicine. She was responsible for introducing us to Bahay Aruga, and both C-j and I guessed she had also encouraged Fred to audition for and eventually join the Team.

At church, Ara had a reputation for being amazed at the smallest detail of Nature, a trait that Fred also shared. As the sun set on our journey, it threw magnificent shades of light and color that anyone with a heart would surely appreciate, Ara and Fred not the least of them.
Taking in the sights one last time, before daylight disappears. Photo by and property of the author
And yet I could not stave off the feeling of dread that was slowly creeping on me as the darkness set in and the birds started roosting in the trees. As the sun’s dying rays started to recede, we were increasingly being enveloped by the shadow of Mt. Cayluya to our left. I rode at the head of the group at race speed, hoping to spur the others behind. Bernie and Agapito, sensing the urgency in my pace, broke free and opened a gap of more than five minutes.

I soon caught up with the two Riders resting at a sari-sari store. A quick inquiry told us that this was Barangay Looc, and the map on my phone told me that we were right on track. But it also told us we were nowhere near Kaybiang.

I joined the two in resting by the roadside, buying several pieces of bread for sharing, and a bottle of Coke to load up on sugar (energy, in cycling terms). As we rested, Fred arrived, followed by Mikey several minutes later. Fred proceeded to secure a flower he had found in a garden nearby, which we immediately knew he was taking home to Ara as a souvenir of his first Ride for Hope. Despite the darkness that had now set in, our spirits were high.

That is, until C-j and Nico arrived some 10 minutes later.

***

The problem this time with "Utoy," a “Fox Trail” entry-level beater bike, was its unstable seat, which prevented the rider from firmly planting himself on the bike as it moved. This robbed the rider of any strength needed for pedaling, especially during uphill climbs. With Mt. Palay-palay looming up ahead, C-j became frustrated as he felt the odds were stacked too much against him.

I started inquiring with the store owners for a jeep we could rent to bring us to Kaybiang Tunnel, and if need be, to the other side of Mt. Palay-palay. I was told there was a jeepney rental about a kilometer away. Meanwhile Nico and Mikey worked on Utoy to see if something could be done to improve the seat’s stability.

C-j approached me after five minutes and apologized for his outburst. He munched on the bread I gave him and got some of his strength back. He then checked on Mikey and Nico as they worked on the bike. As soon as it became clear that Mikey had performed another of his engineering marvels, stabilizing the seat with plastic twine (straw) almost as if it had been welded in place, we set out once again. “Mag-iingat kayo,” the old couple managing the store bid us farewell, with the husband seeing us off as our twinkling LED lights receded in the darkness.

***

We reached the main Ternate-Nasugbu highway 15 minutes later. We decided not to look for the rental jeepney, as C-j’s confidence had returned and he once again took the lead. We passed by several stores selling cooked ulam and isaw  along the highway; we had also decided not to eat first before the ascent, reasoning that it would be hard to climb on a full stomach.

Soon enough the streetlights disappeared, marking the foot of the mountain. We had no illumination whatsoever, save for our LED headlights and that of a passing car or truck. Even the light of the stars above seemed swallowed by the darkness.

We tackled the first climb eagerly. We immediately found out that the road here, compared to our favorite haunt Bugarin in Rizal, was much, much steeper. It wasn’t long before we started dismounting and pushing the bikes uphill. “Di mo pala kaya eh,” we teased each other as, for the first time, all five Ride for Hope Team members were on foot. Bernie and Agapito, meanwhile, made short work of the first few kilometers; we would eventually catch up with them pushing their bikes as well.

We traded stories and jokes to keep us occupied. Occasionally we would recall our moments with the kids of Bahay Aruga to remind us why we were doing this. My thoughts eventually came back to Jeffrey “Mokong” Dioneda, who had gone home a few months prior to the Ride. Thankfully it was dark and no one saw me brushing away the tears in my eyes.

After more than an hour of walking, pushing, and riding downhill, the Team was thoroughly exhausted. Surprisingly, none of the other Riders had thought of bringing extra food from the store in Looc. I happened to have an extra energy bar which the others shared among themselves.

As the others rested and took a nap on the roadside, under the stars, I looked out onto the sea to my left, and the glow of the city in front, across the bay. All I wanted was to get off this mountain and get home. I prayed for strength, and that we would be able to reach the Tunnel. I reckoned if we got to Kaybiang, the Team would somehow get its second wind as it marked the second major waypoint.

I woke up the Team about 15 minutes later, and we resumed our trek. Push, walk, glide. Push, walk, walk, walk, glide, push, walk. The Team rested two more times; we were literally running on fumes.

Finally, at 9:00pm, we reached Kaybiang Tunnel.

***
At Kaybiang Tunnel, at last. Photo by and property of the author
All sense of ceremony or triumph had gone at this point. We simply took the customary picture at the mouth of the Tunnel, got back on our bikes and pushed on. The road still climbed significantly, and as the mountain blocked the glow of city lights to the north and to the east, we felt hardly a shred of hope to keep us going.

Half a kilometer from the Tunnel, we rested once more, with the Riders taking catnaps. I tried uploading the Kaybiang Tunnel photo to Instagram, but even the data signals were weak, if at all. I felt isolated. We should have rented the jeep, my mind told me. As Team Principal, I felt responsible for putting us all through this purgatory that was Mt. Palay-palay.

When the others woke up from their naps, we got back on our bikes and climbed some more. About half a kilometer later, the road started to go downhill, although with several uphill sections. We determined we were now in the vicinity of Mt. Pico de Loro, and a light up ahead told us that we had reached the base camp, where backpackers jumped off for their climb of the famed Parrot’s Beak. The promise of food and much-needed rest crossed our minds.

We eagerly approached the compound, where we were promptly shooed away by the rangers. Could we buy some dinner? “Closed,” came the reply. Could we at least have some water? “Closed,” came the reply. “Sarado na kami.

Tired, cold, and hungry, we got back on our bikes, and soon enough, the road started descending. The rushing wind numbed our tired arms while hunger gnawed the pit of our stomachs. We silently made our way down the mountain, with the only moment of alarm coming near Puerto Azul as Mikey skidded onto the road’s center island. Thankfully, he kept his balance and didn’t spill. I implored God to keep us safe as we rushed through the darkness, that He would get us safely off this mountain, and that we would find a place to eat.

About half an hour later, as the road straightened out, we saw streetlights. “Eyes open for the nearest store you can find,” I said out loud, and the others perked up. Soon enough, God would provide the answer to our prayers: A carinderia situated in front of a bus terminal. I was near tears in gratitude and relief.

***

We ate hungrily, with the canteen’s manang only too happy to have additional customers at this time of the night. Our arrival had been quite unexpected, as she barked orders to her staff to heat up the rice and the viands. Thankfully there was still something we could eat. Extra rice here, a bottle of Coke there—the girls moved about busily, following their employer’s demands as well as the wishes of seven tired and hungry Riders.

As soon as we finished eating, C-j and I discussed our next move. It was clear to us that the Team was tired and beyond its limits. The climb up Mt. Palay-palay was nothing like any of us had ever experienced, and it had left everyone on the Team exhausted. So when I proposed to the Captain that we were riding the bus towards our next waypoint, at the C-5 Extension in Las Piñas, he did not object.

We considered pedaling onward to the next town, Maragondon, and catching a ride aboard the first bus we could find. Meanwhile, we learned the AAB Bus Line that operated from the garage behind the canteen had its earliest trip at around 2:00am.

We were still discussing our options when we heard Bernie and Agapito snoring from the front of the carinderia. We looked at each other and laughed. The decision had been made for us.
An unscheduled sleepover at the bus employee barracks. Photo by C-j Indiongco
The manang graciously offered the employee barracks behind the canteen for us to sleep in, not just because it was cold outside at the carinderia, but because we were occupying all the benches, leaving no place for the bus drivers and conductors who would be coming in early in the morning. After arranging the bikes outside, we settled on the raised bamboo flooring that served as the bed, lying side by side and setting our alarms. Soon enough, the snores of tired Riders filled the barracks.

***

The sound of bus engines woke us up at 1:45am, and we slowly willed ourselves awake. The manong conductor helped us stow the bikes at the back end of the bus, since it did not have a cargo compartment underneath. Ten minutes later, the bus pulled away, and after paying our fare, the rest of the Team went to sleep.
A first for the Team: A bus ride for both Riders and bikes alike. Photo by and property of the author
I was left contemplating what could have been, as I counted the towns of Cavite that passed outside the window. Previous Rides had always had us arriving at the finish line under our own power. This was the first Ride where we would be riding towards the next waypoint. I could not help but feel a bit guilty, cheating even.

However, the circumstances had prevented us from doing so, and as Team Principal, I was responsible for the welfare and safety of the Riders. It would be pointless for us to strive to raise funds for Bahay Aruga only to use it for hospitalization of a member of the Team.

Despite the fact that Tour de France participants also ride on a team bus towards specific stages, I found little comfort as I wrestled with my thoughts. Perhaps this unscheduled bus ride, although necessary, left a feeling of defeat in the face of the 200-kilometer challenge that Ride for Hope was. I would never know for sure, probably until we conquer this route convincingly in the near future.

***

The bus let us off at Zapote, and from there, it was a short hop to our final waypoint at the end of C-5 Extension. We took a final Team photo for posterity. From there, we would go on our own separate ways, homebound at last.
One last time: At the last waypoint, and finally headed for home. L-R: Mikey, Fred, C-j, Nico, Bernie, and Agapito. Photo by and property of the author
The remaining members of the Team—C-j, Nico, and this writer—arrived at Bisikleta Republika at 5:00am of November 19, more than 24 hours since we first set out. It set a new endurance record for Ride for Hope, and was eventually able to raise more than PhP7,000—more than the PhP5,000 target—in pledges and support.

Ride for Hope 8 broke records for duration (24 hours, 22 minutes), total elevation (1,830 meters, or almost two kilometers high), and total distance (195.3km). It also broke our wills and whatever confidence we may have had in our own abilities, but it did teach us a lot about humility and perseverance.

More than anything, Ride for Hope 8 reminded us of the continuing struggle of the brave kids living in Bahay Aruga. We may be left feeling defeated as I did on the bus ride, but we can be assured there is a God who knows infinitely better than we do. If we are willing to trust Him, He will guide us safely to the finish, where He will welcome us for sure, with open arms. Jeffrey and the other kids will also be there, on the sidelines, waving their little flags.

It would be a sight to behold.

At Bahay Aruga during the turnover of pledges last December 19, 2015. L-R: C-j, the author, Cat, Nico. Property of the author
Ride for Hope 8 summary. Map courtesy of Google and Ride with GPS
Our deepest thanks to Bisikleta Republika, Jomel and Leony Medina, Joy Christian Fellowship, Cat Zuñiga, our Partner Riders, supporters, and donors who pledged their time, resources, prayers, and whatever blessings they have extended to make this Ride possible. 

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

When Grown Men Cry

At the starting line on the morning of April 26. Photo by and property of the author

Last Sunday, April 26, we had the seventh edition of the Ride for Hope that was the shortest in terms of distance. It turned out to be the most meaningful of them all.

Following the last fundraising ride for Bahay Aruga, the Team decided to help the halfway home with its planned blood drive set for April 29. C-j and I decided on an April 26 date to invite bikers to visit Bahay Aruga and challenge them to be part of the blood-letting activity.

I had to read up for myself why a blood drive would be essential to Bahay Aruga, which offers free services to pediatric cancer patients. It turns out that chemotherapy destroys not only the harmful cancer cells in one's body, but also the healthy ones, thus leaving many patients suffering from low blood cell counts. Blood transfusions help alleviate the situation by providing patients a fresh supply of blood cells their body can use as they recover and fight the cancer.

With this understanding, we proceeded to promote our planned Ride on social media. The response blew us away, as interest in the Ride drove up the numbers for our Facebook page to record levels. I was particularly excited and a bit apprehensive at the same time, as I had no idea how to marshal a large group should one ever materialize.

Ride for Hope 7 route, from Bisikleta Republika in Sucat to Bahay Aruga in Manila. It is the shortest Ride by far, stretching a little over 22 kilometers. Courtesy of ridewithgps.com

On the morning of the Ride, however, excitement turned to utter disappointment as the riders we had invited to join failed to materialize. A quick check of Facebook revealed that we had scheduled our Ride on Earth Day Weekend, with the hugely popular Tour of the Fireflies drawing away most of our target crowd.
A largely empty Chino Roces Avenue. Photo by and property of the author

***
With a heavy heart, I managed to push away from the starting line at Bisikleta Republika at exactly 5:45 Sunday morning. With Switchfoot's "Love Alone is Worth the Fight" beating in my ear, I made good progress and found myself in the City of Makati within an hour. Traffic was non-existent, which somehow eased my trip and lifted my spirits.
Earth Day Run along Gil Puyat (Buendia) Avenue. Photo by and property of the author

Turning into Buendia, I came upon the annual Earth Day Run and enjoyed the empty roads. I could not help but feel a bit sad, though, as it reminded me how our cause had gotten lost in the hoopla of Earth Day. Nevertheless, I pushed on towards the rendezvous point at the Rajah Sulayman Park in Manila and waited for my companions to arrive.

It was around 8:00am when the rest of the Riders arrived. Two of the group were newbies to road riding: Charlou, a student I was mentoring at our church, and Vents, who was C-j's younger brother. Rounding up the group was their elder brother Jason, an accomplished distance rider in his own right, with trips to Baguio, Cavite, Rizal, and the Ilocos under his belt. Aside from C-j and I, though, all were newcomers to the cause of advocacy riding.
The Ride for Hope 7 team at Rajah Sulayman Park. From right: C-j, Jason, Vents, Charlou, and the author. Photo by and property of the author

After a short rest (Vents was adjusting quite badly to his first ride, with aching legs and joints at this point), the five of us pushed on for the short hop towards Bahay Aruga. We stopped awhile to purchase some treats (specifically, Mogu Mogu drinks) for the kids. Once we had everything ready, we strolled towards Bahay Aruga and our hearts dropped at the sight that welcomed us.
A "guard of honor"--kids of Bahay Aruga with their parents--welcomes our Team. Photo by and property of the author

A small crowd of kids and their parents were standing in front of the home, soaking in the sun. When they saw us coming, they met us with warm smiles and cheers, waving colorful hand-cut pennants they had made themselves. All of us in the Team looked around and at each other, unable to comprehend what was happening. It was only when Ma'am Mayette Bonilla of Bahay Aruga came out of the door and met us when it made sense to us that the guard of honor was for us.


C-j's brother Jason's heart melted at the sight, and he went off with C-j to the nearby 7-11 to get more treats for the kids. Meanwhile, a fellow donor from a group of toy collectors came and brought a ton of toys and food supplies. Charlou, Vents, and Jason helped with the offloading while C-j and I turned over our humble treats, consisting of Mogu Mogu drinks and donuts.
C-j supervises the turnover of our humble treats. Photo by and property of the author
With the kids of Bahay Aruga. Say "Mogu Mogu!" Photo by and property of the author

After meeting the kids and having a short talk with ma'am Mayette, our Team took its leave. Some of the kids sent us off with waves and smiling faces. As soon as we rounded the corner and entered the shelter of Gonzales street, the tears came out of my eyes. It was some time before I had the strength to rejoin the others.

***
Indeed, 22 kilometers is a short trip by Ride for Hope standards, but for some of the kids at Bahay Aruga, life can be like that--a short hop. However, like this trip, it's about finding meaning that makes the journey quite fulfilling.

We Riders can go and pedal around the world for all its worth, but this seventh edition will always be special. For the first time, we were the ones on the receiving end of our advocacy efforts, as the kindness and sincerity of children fighting a glorious battle against cancer showed us what it meant to live with hope and dignity. It was a Ride that touched our hearts.

Bahay Aruga will be conducting its blood-letting drive in coordination with the PGH Blood Bank on April 29 starting 8:00am. You can visit them at 1131 San Marcelino Street, Ermita, Manila (between Emilio Aguinaldo College Buildings 7 & 8). Look for Ms. Mayette Bonilla.

UPDATE: The first Bahay Aruga blood drive held last April 29 at the Emilio Aguinaldo College (EAC) Building 6 enjoyed a successful turnout, hitting the required minimum quota at 11:30am . Our deepest thanks goes to the donors, the PGH Blood Bank staff, EAC College of Nursing, Joy Christian Fellowship, and to everyone who became part of this event.


This Ride, we won't forget. Photo by and property of the author




Wednesday, February 25, 2015

The Perfect Ride


The kids at Bahay Aruga with their parents during a Christmas celebration led by (from right) Steph Alcantara, Cat Zuniga, Ride for Hope 6 rider C-j Indiongco, and Ara Laingo. Photo by and property of the author.

The children entered the room in disciplined fashion, some with shy, quiet smiles, others with warm, greeting chuckles and grins. Save for the sterile facemasks and thinning hair, one would think this was the perfect home, with jolly yet well-behaved kids and hard-working parents to boot. But there was a lingering presence, an unseen, ominous He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named, yet known to each of the residents, that threatened to shatter the perfectness of the atmosphere—and its name was Death.

This is Bahay Aruga (literally "House of Care"), a halfway home along San Marcelino Street in Manila, with a mission of bringing adequate care to kids with cancer—for free. Children from various parts of the country who are fighting the Big C come here for a place to stay during the tortuous treatment regimen they undergo in hospitals around the area. Considering the cost of chemo or radiation therapy, having a home near the hospital is a significant boon; receiving board and lodging plus more, a bonanza akin to winning the lottery, especially in this age where most essentials don’t come for free.

It was during the run-up to Ride for Hope 5 last year that our friend Ara first raised the idea of helping Bahay Aruga, which was near her school. A week after we concluded that Ride she then invited us for a Christmas program for the kids at the halfway home, and on the morning of December 20, 2014, we found ourselves mingling with these kids. Each had a quiet dignity around them that somehow left us reeling in admiration and respect. If anyone among our group felt pity, it was never shown at all.

C-j and I learned in our ensuing conversation with Ms. Mayette, the owner and managing director of Bahay Aruga, that keeping the services free was, obviously, a constant struggle. “I’ve had to delay renovating the place and expanding it because of more pressing needs, like medicine, food, or electricity,” she explained. There was no need for C-j and I to exchange words, as we both agreed on the spot that this was the mission for Ride for Hope 6.

We initially intended to have Ride for Hope 6 on February 4, World Cancer Day, but since this fell on a weekday, we settled for the nearest Saturday, February 7, instead. Incidentally, it was also the date nearest C-j’s 25th birthday. Getting the encouraging news from Aklan that our intended recipients had received the proceeds from Ride for Hope 5—a sewing machine for the livelihood of a women’s group—gave us further confidence to pursue this new course.
Our planned route. Courtesy of ridewithgps.com
It was actually, at least for me, a homecoming of sorts: The first two Rides for Hope, dubbed “Padyak Pag-asa,” were for the benefit of the Cancer Warriors Foundation. The route involved climbing up Tagaytay and sprinting back towards our church in Intramuros as the finish line. When supertyphoon “Haiyan” happened in 2013, Ride for Hope became a mercy mission, first with the goal of raising funds for relief, and eventually for the rehabilitation of the storm-hit areas. It was also during this time when Ride ceased to be a solo endeavor, as C-j and several of our biker friends came aboard. Thus, for Ride 6 to return to its original calling, as well as its home course, evoked certain emotions that I was to discover later on.

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On the morning of February 7, C-j and I prepared for this sixth edition of Ride for Hope with the usual excitement and pre-ride anxiety. Only the two of us would be available for this trip since most of the team had prior commitments. Nevertheless, we both agreed that we had to push on, since this was a trip for the kids at Bahay Aruga and not for ourselves.

Let's do this! Photo by and property of author.


Setting out after a quick prayer at the Bisikleta Republika shop at around 5:20am, the two of us headed towards BF Homes in Parañaque for the hop towards Daang Hari road, which would then take us to Cavite. There was not much road traffic as we came into Daang Hari, but the road wasn’t completely empty, either. Several weekend riders came upon us, saluting us with their bells or a polite wave. Our pacing was good, and we managed to keep ourselves from sprinting in the early morning light. Soon enough, we reached Paliparan Road, where the sun started to make its appearance.

Good morning, world: The sun comes up at Paliparan Road. Photo by and property of the author.
Probably the only issues we had at this point were the bathroom breaks that came every five kilometers or so since it was quite chilly. Skipping our drinks was, of course, out of the question. So when the sun finally pushed through the early morning light by the time we reached Aguinaldo Highway in Dasmariñas, it was a welcome sight, although C-j preferred riding in the cold (he even removed his sleeve warmers at this point).

At the Silang town arch. Photo by and property of the author.
 
When you see the road rising into the distance, keep your head down. Photo by and property of the author.
The road rises significantly at this point, and it’s easy to get discouraged especially for the uninitiated. It was here where C-j’s vastly-improved climbing skills showed, as I struggled to keep pace with him and regularly found myself dropping behind. At times, the gap between us would grow up to 10 minutes, but thankfully, C-j would slow down from time to time to allow me to catch up.

At Kilometer 49, though, I ran out of gas.

I looked up from my pedaling and saw the road rise up into the distance. It’s so long! my mind screamed. My pedaling grew slower and my breathing grew heavier. I felt chilly (the air was quite cool, though) but I was sweating buckets. My legs started to feel like jelly and my head felt light.

I dismounted by the side of the road and tried to take stock of what I was feeling. What is it? What’s wrong with me? my mind wondered. I recalled having the same symptoms when I had heat exhaustion some years back, but it was not that hot at all. What’s happening?

After getting some strength in my legs back, I got off the bike and sat in the shade of a parked truck. I gulped down some Gatorade and took the last energy bar I had, eating slowly and waiting to see if I would throw it up (a sure symptom of heat exhaustion, as the body dumps materials in your digestive tract in order to cool down). Thankfully my food and drink stayed down. I texted C-j telling him I wasn’t feeling well.

A few moments later C-j called me up to see if I needed help. He was already at Km.51. “No, stay there—I think I just need something to eat,” I replied, spying some turon (bananas wrapped in egg white wrapper and deep-fried and coated in caramelized sugar) a few steps from where I sat. After hanging up, I promptly walked over to the stand where a little manang was busy working in her roadside kitchen and bought the last stick on display.

The lone turon left after I gobbled the first. Photo by author.

It was heaven. The freshly-cooked turon did wonders not only for my tummy but also for my spirit. Maybe because it was still warm, or that it was cooked to my taste (not too spongy and having just the right amount of wrapper). It was better than the chocolate bread I had had for breakfast a little over three hours ago.

As I munched down the turon, my mind had a little discussion on its own: Should I still push for the summit? I’m getting too old for this, I thought. Am I strong enough to finish this, let alone reach the top of Tagaytay?

Then I remembered those smiles of the kids at Bahay Aruga and my eyes grew misty. No, I can’t give up yet. But we’ll take this one kilometer at a time. Once we get to the summit, we’ll see if we can still push for the complete course. But at this point, no, we can’t turn back now, not when we’re this close to the top.

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It was about half an hour later when I finally got on the bike. One kilometer at a time, I reminded myself. Gingerly I resumed pedaling, keeping my head down so that I didn’t see how long the road went, although I did glance up from time to time just so I wouldn’t run into something. I did see the distance marker by the roadside so I knew how far I still had to go. Kilometer 50. Only nine more kilometers to go to the summit.

C-j was relieved when I finally caught up with him at Km.51, as he had been waiting for quite some time. After a short rest, we resumed the climb. Thankfully, I felt better as the turon seemed to have renewed my energy reserves. I could actually smile again.

I looked up to see another long stretch of road rising before me. Meanwhile, on the other side of the road, cyclists who had overtaken us on the ascent were already homeward-bound, waving at us and slightly insulting me in the process. I can’t give up. I gritted my teeth and pedaled some more. This one’s for the kids.

Suddenly, about a hundred meters from where I was, C-j stopped by the roadside and got off his bike. He was pointing at something beside the road, and grinning. My eyes followed where he was pointing and immediately felt a flood of relief in my heart.

It was the Tagaytay City boundary marker.

At the Tagaytay City limits. Photo by and property of the author.
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Some 20 minutes later we were at the summit, the Tagaytay City Rotunda. I chose to forego my traditional victory lap after C-j reminded me of it. “No, not this time,” I grinned wearily. After resting a bit and hydrating at the 7-11 store, we pushed on towards Mahogany to look for a place to crash in for lunch. We found a roadside sizzling steak house near the junction leading to Mahogany and Sky Ranch and opted to pit in.

The Tagaytay Rotunda gets a makeover. Photo by and property of the author.
Lunch was a blessing, as I opted for burger steak and lots of rice. The store owners were quite accommodating, even though C-j and I took our time there, staying for almost two hours just to get our strength back. C-j even had the chance to take a quick nap. We chatted about life, love, and other mysteries, and when our roll-out time neared, we discussed our route. Could we still push for the long route towards Trece Martires or head back towards Carmona? We decided to play it by ear and make the choice as soon as we got down from Tagaytay.

At 12noon we got up from our table and back on our bikes. A quick check of Maia and C-j’s bike Kalloy showed no problems so far. We decided to head for Sky Ranch for a quick photo op, after which was the long road down Tagaytay via Amadeo.

At Sky Ranch, because we're in Tagaytay. Photo by and property of the author.
We turned into Crisanto delos Reyes Avenue and let loose. A warm sun coupled with a cool breeze greeted us. Traffic was very light. I recounted to C-j those first two Rides for Hope where I soloed to Tagaytay via this road, and soon enough, the memories flooded in.
Going down Tagaytay via Crisanto delos Reyes Road. Photo by and property of the author.
It was five years ago when I first climbed this road, and I remembered those times I had been so close to giving up. I remembered the aching legs, the hot sun, the labored breathing. I remembered the frustration and drawing inspiration from my beloved Nanay Eunice, a cancer survivor who had taken me in as an extra son when I was a teenager. Coasting down Amadeo, with tears in my eyes, I sighed a prayer—for the kids at Bahay Aruga, for Nanay (who actually turned 60 last January), for my own dreams and desires. Thankfully, C-j had again put some distance between us so he didn’t have to see me tearing up.

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At the Amadeo town marker. Photo by author.
It was about 1:30pm when we reached the end of Crisanto delos Reyes Avenue, at General Trias in Cavite. I had reckoned it would take us only 30 minutes to descend from Tagaytay, but for some reason it had taken longer. “I don’t remember that road to be that long!” I explained sheepishly to C-j. As we took stock of our situation, we weighed our options: Turn left towards Trece Martires and Naic and face the prospect of reaching home by 8:00pm at the earliest, or turn right towards Carmona and shorten our course by several kilometers and getting home before sunset.

“Let’s just go the long route,” C-j declared, and I agreed. We were already here, after all. I checked the map and verified it would be 15 kilometers to our next waypoint in Naic, where we would be turning right towards the town of Tanza and back home. “Let’s do this!” we said to each other, and resumed our trek towards Trece Martires.

Three kilometers later, we spied the monument to the 13 martyrs of Cavite. We both got excited, as we knew the turn going to Tanza was quite near. Sure enough, five minutes away from the monument, we turned right. Was the map wrong? C-j and I wondered. Surely it should have been 12 kilometers more to our next waypoint?

The monument to the 13 martyrs in Trece Martires. Photo by and property of the author.
The answer would come later, as I checked our actual route against the planned one: We had turned right earlier than expected, shortening our route by 10 kilometers. We had failed to reach Naic, but that discovery would come after this Ride. At the moment, we were both relieved we were making good progress, reaching Tanza at 2:00pm.

As C-j once again took the lead, I turned my attention to some concerns. My right wrist was now aching badly, like the joint was inflamed or something. Every two minutes I was shaking my hands to loosen them up. It was also a good thing the road was slightly downhill, as I felt the onset of cramps. I rested my legs whenever I could, letting gravity drive me forward.
Puregold supermarket in Tanza. Photo by and property of the author.
 At Tanza proper, we turned right towards the Diversion Road that would take us through the Cavite Economic Zone in General Trias. This time around, the wind was not on our faces but behind our backs, aiding our homeward journey greatly. I noted to myself that the first time C-j and I had traversed this route, he was behind me, slogging through a stiff breeze. This time, though, I was behind him, and I was still slogging.
Welcome to Bacoor! Photo by and property of the author.
By 4:04pm, we reached Bacoor and pitted at a bakery to refill and rest. We stayed for about 10 minutes and got back on our bikes again, our spirits starting to soar. Traffic was starting to build up as we reentered Aguinaldo Highway, but it was not much of an issue. We just pedaled on, taking care to avoid pedestrians and vehicles. My legs and my wrist still ached, though, and I did try my best to keep my attention focused on the road. There was more traffic to deal with when we reached Quirino Road, but even so, as C-j and I weaved through the cars and jeeps stuck in the rush-hour buildup, we only had our sights set on the finish line.
At SM Bacoor, with our final waypoint not long off. Photo by and property of the author.
And come it did, sooner than we had expected: At 4:43pm, we reached our final waypoint together at C-5 Extension in Las Piñas. From here on, it was going to be a solo ride to our respective finish lines, C-j heading back towards Tondo and me going back to Sucat. The moment deserved a high-five and a selfie, along with a prayer of thanks. There was no denying the feeling of accomplishment, but more than that, deep in our hearts, both C-j and I knew this meant more to the kids at Bahay Aruga that we were riding for. This was their Ride.

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The official distance for Ride for Hope 6 is 134.2kms, owing to the unplanned shortcut through Tanza that should have brought the Ride to close to 150kms. This ride lasted for 11 hours, 38 minutes, including rest stops (with about nine hours spent on the bike), and can be considered one of the fastest the Team has done (although I would only reach home three hours later). With virtually no equipment glitches or physical injuries, this is considered a perfect Ride.
The actual route taken by the Ride for Hope 6 Team missed Naic by 12 kilometers, dramatically shortening the Ride but still challenging, at the least. Courtesy of ridewithgps.com
I guess that’s one way to view this life, after everything’s been said and done, after you’ve overcome the long climb up Tagaytay or slogged through Cavite with a stiff wind in front of you, and you realize God has been taking care of you all along and you’ve managed to reach your destination in better shape. For the kids in Bahay Aruga, their journey holds much uncertainty, as most of the time they have no idea whether their own bodies will get them to the next significant waypoint in their lives.

Nevertheless, I am encouraged, by the smiles on their faces and the sincerity of their hearts, that theirs is not a worthless journey. Their Ride through this life may be long or short, but it will surely be an epic one, with mountains to climb and obstacles to conquer. We at Team Ride for Hope are privileged to be part of their ride, and it is our hope that you can help us help them too, that no matter the duration of their life’s journey, they can have the hope that it will be a very worthwhile one.

In other words, the perfect ride.
C-j and me celebrating at the final waypoint at C5 Extension in Las Pinas. Thank you Lord for a perfect ride. Photo by and property of the author.
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For pledges and donations to Ride for Hope 6, contact Team Ride for Hope or team principal Marvin Kenneth M. Santos via Facebook. You can also visit Bahay Aruga along San Marcelino street in Manila, near Emilio Aguinaldo College.

The Ride for Hope 6 Team wishes to thank Bisikleta Republika, our official kit sponsor and parts supplier; Jomel and Leony Medina; Cat Zuñiga; our home church Joy Christian Fellowship; and of course, our Lord who has made such a perfect Ride possible.